I'm gonna have to trim down my flist soon; if I take you off, it doesn't mean I hate you, it just means I'm not reading your LJ anymore, which is not, I hope, a value judgment on either of us. (You should always feel free to friend or defriend me at will, incidentally. I think the social baggage of the "friendslist" is, not to put too fine a point on it, PERPOSTERICE.)